If I can Do it, So Can You

WELCOME! My Name is Edward Fisher and I can save your marriage. I’m not a marriage counselor or any type of relationship professional. I call myself an expert, however, because I know what it takes to save marriages after going through tough times myself and after my own marriage was almost destroyed by marriage counseling. I was able to turn things around in my own marriage and I want to show you the tools that worked for me so you can save your marriage too.

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That’s me 2 years ago – and the kids I didn’t want to see in a broken home

Let me share something with you: Two years ago, my relationship was falling apart and I was desperate to save my marriage. Actually, I wasn’t desperate, I was angry and bitter and confused and I was almost ready to throw in the towel with my wife of 5 years, Allison. I was ready to consider breaking up our home and shattering the lives of my 3 year old daughter and my 1 year old son. I went through the motions of saying “I Love You” to Allison, but with all the fights we had I wasn’t really sure I believed it anymore.

I kept thinking that she was crazy, and she was convinced that I was stupid. I was walking on eggshells because she was just so prickly. We never had sex anymore and we didn’t agree on anything. Technically we were living in a sexless marriage. Many of our fights (over little things) ended with one of us casually suggesting that divorce might be the answer. It hurt. When I thought of divorce, and the end of my family, I thought, How did we get to this?

Like you, I don’t want a divorce. I want to have a lasting loving relationship with my wife. But I also want to relax and enjoy myself and enjoy being with my wife and my kids and the fighting and friction just seemed like it was too much to overcome. Still I thought I should at least try to save my marriage for the sake of my family.

We went to marriage counseling and I have to tell you, it almost destroyed everything. You can read about that experience a bit at the end of my article Does Marriage Counseling Work?

I decided I had to take matters into my own hands and since I spend a lot of my workday online, that’s where I looked for answers. I discovered a wealth of information on the internet and in the course of my online travels I came upon some great products that were heads above the rest in terms of quality and professionalism. These products (for example the excellent Save My Marriage Today system by Amy Waterman, and the first marriage book I ever read, the invaluable Save the Marriage by Lee Baucom really changed my perception of the problems my wife and I had, and it was like turning on a light bulb.

I understood so much more about where our feelings were coming from. I understood my wife much more and I felt more sympathy for her situation. I understood that I was driving her away with some of my actions and they were easy to correct. Bottom line: We are now much more patient and loving with each other. We are happier than we have ever been and our marriage is on track. Was it hard? Not really. It was more… like “ah-hah!” It took some effort, but honestly, with a bit of time and patience it was easier than I thought to turn things around.

The truth is, even though YOU may seem to fight constantly with your spouse, you might find it’s not that hard to completely turn things around and save your marriage. It’s not that hard (if you know how to do it) to actually stop fighting and  start loving each other again! It seems like a miracle, but it is true. Even your sex life can recover – it’s not as hard as you might think. Boy, I have said that a lot, huh? “It’s not that hard to save your marriage.”

The dramatic turn around of our marriage is astounding. I decided to put together this site to share my experiences and the products I used that helped me so much. I’ve also collected an assortment of articles that make some interesting reading. But if you are serious about fixing your relationship, internet articles won’t do the trick. You absolutely must  invest the very small amount of money (about 1/3 of the cost of a first visit to a marriage counselor) to get proven, professional, expert advice that the products I recommend will give you. Your marriage is worth it. Don’t short change yourself.

My wife and I are working on our relationship… well, not “working.” One of the things you will discover is that “work” is the wrong way to think about it. We are enjoying each other’s company again!

I know that these can seem like dark days but hang in there. If you want to make your marriage whole again, you will succeed. There are lots of things you can do to bring the love back before it is too late.

Congratulations on taking the first steps to making your relationship great again! Read the reviews of the great products that saved my marriage. If you want, sign up for the free series of articles I’ve put together into an email package (the form is below) and you can read more by clicking here. I don’t spam, I just send the articles. People have thanked me many times over for that collection.  You will be inspired. Good luck!  – Ed